THE BRIDE ASSIST

YOUR PERSONAL BRIDAL ASSISTANT
ON HAND TO MAKE YOUR WEDDING JOURNEY EFFORTLESS

Welcome to The Bride Assist - the home to a Stress-Free Wedding!

Are you worried about your Wedding Day?
Maybe you're apprehensive about the details of your day; or the people within your Party enjoying your day with you?

You've come to the right place!

The Bride Assist offers a number of services to alleviate the stress of your day and make it the day you've always dreamed of having!

The Backstory...

Having worked in the Wedding industry for 6+ years as a Hair and Make Up Artist - I just noticed that there was a frequency of lack of care for the couples; their friends and their family.

This may not be the "biggest day of your life", but surely you should be treated that way, right?!
I kept seeing conveyor-belt weddings, with Venue Coordinators treating couples as a number in their booked up calendars, not as excited newlyweds!

So I stepped in!

I began offering a new service in the UK, called Bridal Assistance.
This essentially involves me being a helping hand for the day, so that your Bridal Party/Groomsmen can relax and enjoy the day.
It's been a HUGE hit...

... but I still noticed the lack of care from Venues - and other suppliers too!
I was working at Weddings where decor was set up incorrectly; suppliers were late (or just didn't show up); place names were wrong; food orders were incorrect; not enough food was made!
Rude staff members; attitude to requests and indifference about details for the day itself.

I knew I needed to do something to help!

Low and behold, my On the Day Coordination services were introduced! I knew that I could work alongside couples to ensure that their day is exactly as they hoped, whilst making sure that they are shielded from the venue/suppliers downfalls.

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Why trust me?

Entrusting someone to be a part of your Wedding Day - one of the most important days of your life (if not that, the most expensive day!), is a nerve-wracking thing, I completely get it!

My promise to you is that I will care about your day just as much as you do!
You are not another number to me, and I don't just look for a paycheck, I genuinely pour my heart and soul into every single booking, because you deserve the best!

I believe that your "Wedding Day" starts from the moment you get engaged.
All of the planning, the crafting; the excited conversations with friends; family and suppliers - it all contributes to your overall Wedding experience.
I strongly feel that any person invited to be a part of your journey should be as passionate and enthusiastic about your day as yourself.

It is an honour to share your journey with you.

EXPLORE OUR SERVICES

SERVICES

ON THE DAY COORDINATION

We will become a second mind for your Wedding plans - we will learn all of your details and ensure that these are all executed perfectly. We will also liaise with your other Suppliers prior to the day to be a point of contact for any queries regarding timings and set up. We will ensure that the day runs to time and deal with any issues that may arise, leaving you to enjoy the day.

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BRIDAL ASSISTANCE

Think of this as your Bridal Bestie - your right hand woman for anything that comes up on the day. We will be your associate Bridesmaid, ensuring you have everything you need at any moment, and the person you can boss around without any guilt and your actual Bridesmaids are free to enjoy the day with you.

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CONTENT CREATION

Not to replace any professional Photographer or Videographer - but to capture all of the Behind The Scenes footage that they may miss! These Pro’s are dedicated to capturing yourself and your partner throughout the day - we capture everything from the eyes of the guest, so you can relive your day as they would have!

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PLANNING CONSULTANCY

Stuck in a rut during your wedding planning and need some advice, or extra help to find your perfect suppliers? With this hourly consultancy service, we can help to find you options of suppliers; venues; dresses etc, or guide you through a certain stage of planning.This will save you hours of searching, by allowing us to share our repertoire of industry specialists with you.

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OTHER SERVICES

- Hair and Makeup Services
- Occasion / Bridesmaid Dress Hire
- Decor Hire

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"Katy is a Brides' best friend.
She was absolutely incredible.
From the minute she arrived she always had a smile on her face. All the guests complimented how amazing she is. She did absolutely anything and everything for all of us.
I cannot recommend her enough.
You need The Bride Assist."

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Day 2 of 30 convincing the world that they need a Bridal Assistant at every wedding! ✨

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DAY 2 OF 30 OF CONVINCING EVERYONE THAT THEY NEED A BRIDAL ASSISTANT FOR THEIR WEDDING DAY ✨

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✨ DAY ONE OF CONVINCING YOU ON WHY YOU NEED A BRIDAL ASSISTANT AT YOUR WEDDING ✨

From the ORIGINAL, first in the UK Bridal Assistant

As a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ wedding coordinator and bridal assistant, I am in a prime position to help you with your wedding day stresses!

So follow my page to see all of the tips, tricks and advice that you need to ensure that your day is stress-free!

Or even better… drop me a message to see how I can assist you on your big day, and have the help there in person ✨

#wed #weddingstress #weddinghelp #weddingtips #weddingcoordination #weddingcoordinators

This question gets asked time and time again 😅

Watch the video to find out more..

#weddingplanner #weddingplanning #weddingcoordinator #wedding #2026bride

My favourite thing about being a Wedding Coordinator / Bridal Assistant is:

Being able to be there to ensure that my couples have the BEST day by ensuring them a STRESS-FREE DAY!!

Cliche but it’s honestly the most rewarding this 💖✨

It can be the smallest thing, like holding the Brides train and veil whilst she’s making her way around to her guests; or fetching the Groom a drink whilst he’s engaged in a long conversation; to helping their grandparents have a peaceful day!

Knowing that by me being there as an extra pair of hands, they are able to relax and enjoy their day to its fullest - PRICELESS 💖

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Does this sound like something you may want for your wedding?
Get in touch via email or my website and we can have a free chat!

www.thebrideassist.com
thebrideassist@gmail.com

Covering the UK and Internationally- I can help you wherever you need ✨

3 things you might want to do before you walk down the Aisle on your Wedding Day ✨

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The BEST modern wedding decor and theme I’ve seen 🖤🤍

So many little details, and such amazing ways to tie their colour scheme into the decor and props!

Modern black and white wedding colour scheme!

Couple: @adm.makeupartist_hairstylist
Venue: @holmewoodhall
Content Creator: @thebrideassist

#holmewoodhall #contentcreator #blackandwhite #weddingdecor

ASOS SAMPLE SALE FOR CHEAP BRIDESMAID DRESSES - CHECK IT OUT ASAP✨

🌟 WHAT DO I DO?! AND WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?! 🌟

Just like this picture, I think the most valuable thing that I do within ALL of my services is this…

OFFER

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PAIR

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HANDS

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And why is this the most valuable thing?!

For all of those moments that you just can’t/dont want to do something yourself on the day!
And don’t want to burden anyone else with the stress…

Pictured here:
- Taking the Groom and Best Man’s jackets to the Reception room (because it was SWELTERING) but they had nowhere to put it during the Cocktail Hour.

- Taking the Brides bouquet to pop into water - again, it was sweltering hot weather, so we didn’t want the flowers wilting before photos!

- Carrying my emergency kit bag - for anything that comes up, I can guarantee I will have something to help! Be it stain removers, stitch gun for quick repairs, plasters, breath spray and makeup touch ups!

Just think of me (as many of my previous Brides have done) as your Wedding Fairy Godmother - anything you want to happen on your day is my command ✨✨

PLUS - There is nothing more valuable than your peace during your Wedding Day! No other service is there to solely focus on you two as a couple!!

#wedding #weddingday #weddingcoordinator #weddinginspiration #weddingcoordination #bridetobe #bridehelp #bestwedding

⁉️ Want to know what one of the biggest wedding mistakes you can make is⁉️
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You have spent ages planning📓
Poured your heart and soul into this day ❤️
And have undoubtedly spent a small fortune on the day itself 💰
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What people don’t tell you, is that after the day is done and all of the excitement is gone, you will be hit with huge WEDDING BLUES 😢💙
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‼️THE ADVICE‼️
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D O C U M E N T
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E V E R Y
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S T A G E
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That’s it!!
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Whether you opt for a
Photographer 📸
Videographer 🎥
Content Creator📱
Polaroids 🖼️
Photo booths 🤳
Or the new tradition of hashtag/QR code photos..

It is worth every single penny!
Documenting your day is NOT worth trying to save money on!!
As it’s these which will get you through your wedding blues!

(Another tip: you won’t remember everything!! So allow the documentation to capture it all for you ❤️)

✨ Don’t sweat the small stuff ✨

The most important thing on your wedding day is how you feel.
Not the details or the decor, your emotions will be the thing you remember.
Nothing else matters when your heart is full 💖

✨ If you’re planning on wearing any makeup on your Wedding Day, you’re going to want to hear this… ✨

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✨ COME TO THE TRULY INSPIRATIONAL EVENTS WEDDING FAYRE ✨

@trulyinspirationalevents
Today until 3pm
At @holidayinnpeterborough

WE CANT WAIT TO MEET YOU ✨

THIS QUESTION HAS ALWAYS RECEIVED SO MUCH CONTROVERSY 😬😬😬😬

The responses mention:
“That’s what my bridesmaids are for”
“Well, we’ve got our venue coordinator”
“Oh, my mum is helping us”

WELL…

DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH? 🤐
1. Your bridal party should be enjoying the day with you, not running around endlessly doing errands - they’re your closest friends/family.. surely you’d prefer to be laughing with them all day than having them essentially work for you? (Plus they’ll possibly ruin their hair/makeup by getting sweaty!)

2. A venue coordinator isn’t actually there to serve you - oops, I said it!!
They’re hired by the venue, so their job is to serve the venue. This means that their priority is ensuring that the BTS of the day goes smoothly. And of course, they may try to help you too, but this isn’t their JOB.

3. Your mum may try to help you, and I’m sure that she wants you to have the best day - but do you really want her to have to do everything? She’s probably dreamt of this day since birthing you, it’s a big day for her too! Let her enjoy it by your side.

And an additional point - even if these people want to help, do you want them to?
Do they have the years of knowledge and experience in weddings to know HOW to help?
Do they know different options when a crisis arises?
Will they be able to remain unbias if something happens, in order to keep the situation calm?
More than likely not…

PLUS, as much as people may want to help, it can put a strain on relationships if you ask “too much” of a person! 🤷🏼‍♀️

NOT WITH ME!
You’ve hired me to be able to ask as much as you want from me!
My sole PURPOSE of being there on the day is to assist you!
My FOCUS is on you as newly-weds, and ensuring that you have the day you’ve dreamt of 🫶🏻

Whether it be holding the train of your dress, your bouquet, or changing your shoes.. to fetching you drinks, taking photos, helping your elderly relatives or fixing your buttonholes.. I’m there for it ALL ✨

#bridalassistant #brideassistant #bridalhelp #weddinghelp #weddingstress #helpinghands #helpingothers #wedding

✨ IF YOURE GETTING MARRIED SOON, THIS ONE IS FOR YOU!! ✨

#wedding #weddingtips #weddingadvice #weddinghelp #weddingtoptips #weddingcoordinator #weddings #weddingplanning #weddingday #weddingplanner

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✨ HOW HAS YOUR YEAR STARTED?! ✨

So my main Goal for this year is to show up more on all platforms. But not just with pretty aesthetics or a full face of makeup..

.. as my real, authentic self!

Still bringing you all the tips and tricks..

… but throwing in some fun along the way too!

So, after feeling poorly for the start of the year, I finally sat down to start filming some content to post.

And this is what I ended up with.

Have I got a Time Machine?
2005?! 😂

… I think I need to go back to bed!!

(But for real, the full version will be available to watch on TT and YT tonight - click on the link in my Bio and follow along!) ✨💖

🌟 FIRST LOOKS DONT HAVE TO JUST BE WITH YOUR DAD! 🌟

They can be done with your:
Mum
Son
Daughter
Best friend
Grandparents
Step parents
Aunties / Uncles
God Parents
Next door neighbour

Or…

Just don’t have one!
It’s not a necessity!

But if you do choose to have it, have it your way!
There are no rules ✨

#firstlook #firstlookwedding #wedding #weddingideas #weddinginspiration #bride #bridesmaids

🌟 HOW FAR DO I TRAVEL? 🌟

The answer is… WORLDWIDE!

There are NO travel limits for The Bride Assist!
So if you need assistance for your wedding abroad, just get in touch ✨

#eventcoordinator #weddingcoordinator #coordination #weddingday #internationalcoordinator #bridal

🌟 TIPS FOR TEARS 🌟

Swipe to see my top 3 tips if you think you’ll cry…

#weddingtips #wedding #weddingtipsandtricks #wedding2025 #bridetobe #newlyweds #newlyengaged

🌟 CONSIDERING SPARKLERS FOR YOUR WEDDING? 🌟

I personally LOVE a Sparkler line/shot. I think they’re so magical ✨

But, I do think that they need proper planning to ensure that it’s a beautiful moment, not a stressful one!

Here are 3 things to consider if you’re thinking of using Sparklers at your wedding:

1️⃣ Have at least a 3 people tasked with lighting the sparklers to start - and don’t just use a normal lighter, you will burn your fingers! Use a big candle, or a long handle lighter!
Then instruct everyone to light off of the person next to them!

2️⃣ Have MULTIPLE discard buckets!
Only having one is a recipe for disaster…
Just picture - most people by this point may be tipsy. It will be quite dark, if not pitch black! And you’re expecting everyone to walk to the same small bucket with scorching hot sticks in hand.. in the dark! It won’t end well!

3️⃣ If you’re planning to do a Sparkler walk through (like a confetti walk) make sure to get the long lasting extra time sparklers, not the standard ones! And ensure that you have a wide gap and people are positioned properly BEFORE lighting them. Sparklers and puffy dresses/veils/hairsprayed hair do not mix well, so keep your distance!

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How beautiful was this Sparkler walk at the stunning venue @crockwellweddings
The team were INCREDIBLE with organising the Sparkler walk, with multiple staff on hand to light them all, as well as to safely discard them too!
I would highly recommend ✨

#weddingtips #weddingsparklers #weddingwalk #sparkler #sparklers #wedding #weddingcoordinator #2025bride #2025wedding

🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 R E V I E W 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

I genuinely do a happy dance every time I get a review!
(And possibly a cry too! 🥹)

And Marc’s review was no exception!!

Thank you so much @thebiggguyofficial for your kind words!!

It makes me soo happy when a couple take the time to leave me a review.. but when a fellow supplier does, my mind is blown 🤯
I am SO grateful!! 🫶🏻

#weddingcoordinator #weddingcoordination #weddingcoordinators #bridalcoordinator #wedding #weddingday #weddinghelp #weddingtips

✨ D E C O R ✨

How beautiful were the little details, florals and signage at Roxy and Nicky’s Wedding Day?

I love a mirrored acrylic sign - they look so luxurious and create a statement decor piece, whilst tying in your colour scheme too.

The florals, the light up letters and all of the little touches make the perfect additions to an already beautiful venue @holmewoodhall

I had the honour of carrying out my Bridal Assistance service for this incredible couple this year 💖
These were just a few BTS snippets I managed to capture in between services!

Bridal Flatlay : created by @michelle_white_photography

#bridalassistant #brideassist #weddingassistant #bridesmaidforhire #associatebridesmaid

🤍🤍 WHAT TO WEAR TO YOUR BRIDAL TRIAL 🤍🤍

One of the most important things to do for your Wedding Preview (aka Trial), is to wear something in the same colour as your dress- whether this be White, Ivory, Blush or a vibrant colour, make sure to match it!

This way, you’ll get an idea of what the makeup will look like against your dress tones!

There’s no point going for a peachy toned makeup, if you’re wearing a pinky dress, and seeing them together is too much of a clash for you! 😬

Bonus points if you can get something with the same neckline too - if it’s a strapless dress, wear something strapless; if it’s a plunge, wear something plunging etc.
You’ll be able to visualise the look SO much easier 🥰

If you don’t have anything at all, no worries!!
I do have a Bridal dressing gown in the studio if you’ve booked with me @theweddingmua so we can pop that on to mute anything!

#bridaltips #weddingtips #bridaltrial #bridalpreview #wedding #weddingmakeup #2024bride #2025bride #2026bride #bridetobe

🌟 THREE THINGS TO KEEP IN YOUR BAG AS A BRIDE TO BE 🌟

These are things that you may not think of either!!

Watch the video to find out this top wedding tip!

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🌟 TIPS FOR BRIDES TO BE IN LESS THAN 30 SECONDS - MENS EDITION 🌟

Trials aren’t just for the women!!

#2024bride #2025bride #2026bride #weddinghelp #2025wedding #2026wedding #weddingadvice

🌟 THINKING OF HAVING FIREWORKS AT YOUR WEDDING? 🌟

This is one thing that I think makes a Wedding truly magical!

So if you’re considering it (and have the budget to do so),

Here is your sign to do it!!

BUT

make sure that you do it well!!

Here’s 3 tips to make sure you do it properly:

1️⃣ Make sure that you gather EVERYONE outside.
Huddle together and watch together.
This makes it all the more atmospheric!
It’s not the same if half are indoors and it’s just a few stragglers outside!

2️⃣ Plan for the weather for it!
If you’re planning on doing them in winter - think about providing blankets or umbrellas for those watching them. Otherwise it could be overrun with complaints of the cold!

3️⃣ Plan the timings right!
Have them at dusk.
If you do them too early, you’ll lose the wow factor of the night sky backdrop.. but do them too late and people won’t want to leave the dance floor/get back on the dance floor after!
Do it just as the sky is turning dark and you’ll get fabulous photos of you and your partner too!

#weddingtips #weddinghacks #weddingfireworks #weddingcoordinator #weddingday #weddingcoordination #cambridgeshireweddings #cambridgeshirewedding

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YOUR PERSONAL BRIDAL ASSISTANT
ON HAND TO MAKE YOUR WEDDING JOURNEY EFFORTLESS

"Katy is a Brides' best friend.
She was absolutely incredible.
From the minute she arrived she always had a smile on her face. All the guests complimented how amazing she is. She did absolutely anything and everything for all of us.
I cannot recommend her enough.
You need The Bride Assist."